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Celebrate Your Success An
important element of the science of achievement is the need to celebrate
our successes. It’s also one that’s easily ignored and even
contradicted. The
problem for many of us is that we never quite feel successful because as
soon as we reach one goal or pass a certain milestone, we’re already
going after the next one. Too often we don’t stop to revel in the
feeling of accomplishment. We’re too focused on the next rung of the
ladder—that’s if we’ve even noticed we’ve moved up another rung. I’m
not advocating resting on our laurels. I’m suggesting we truly
experience the joy that comes from seeing our progress and accomplishing
our objectives. I’ve
recently completed my eBook, “Strategies for
Success”. I started it over a year ago and because of a number of
things that happened—too personal, boring or mundane to mention—I
didn’t finish until now. It
feels great to have it done, and I’m getting lots of accolades from
people I respect and admire. It’s a good book. An easy read—both
entertaining and informative. I hope you take advantage of it. But
I find it a little too easy for me to look at how long it took and how
far behind I am in my other projects. I already see ways I could have
done it better. In doing so, I take away from my satisfaction—my sense
of accomplishment and joy. And
I know I’m not alone in this process. The people I interview and coach
share that they do the same thing. No job seems good enough. No
achievement is great enough. It’s
the wrong focus. When we do this, we’re being ungrateful—we’re
thwarting abundance. We
can always see ways we could have done it better or faster. But the
truth is we did it. In my case, having published a book is clearly a
milestone—something millions of people aspire to and yet only a few
thousand actually achieve. So
I’m going to celebrate it. I’m going to mark it as the high point
that it is in my life, and I’m going to start creating the next one.
I’m going to indulge myself in feelings of triumph and success, and
I’m going to thumb my nose at the natural tendency to disparage my
work or myself. What
accomplishment can you celebrate? What milestones can you highlight or
acknowledge? Your last promotion? Helping someone through a tough time?
Winning that new contract? Losing those five pounds? Giving that
presentation? When
we do these things, it anchors positive feelings into our consciousness
and prepares us for more of the same. Like attracts like and our
feelings are powerful magnets indeed. I
keep a WIN LIST as part of my Sacred Life Book. I find that listing the
wins in my life—big and small—is more than therapeutic. And it’s a
real pick-me-up to review the good things that have happened to me as
well as the things I’ve made happen. It
keeps me grateful and it keeps me focused on the good stuff. Celebrating our successes employs a universal law: when we appreciate what we have and what we’ve done, we find ourselves having more to appreciate. |
By Michael Angier |
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